Starting high school is a new experience that can be challenging, and it can feel like stepping into a new world. I’m currently a senior, and I remember that as a freshman, it can be hard to adapt to the new ways of high school life. You’re not only adjusting to new teachers and subjects but also navigating the social dynamics and increased responsibilities that come with aging. Fret not, this guide is here to help you tackle the transition with confidence.
Etiquette: Having good etiquette takes you a long way when navigating through high school. Being on time shows you’re responsible and respectful, paying attention in class and joining in discussions without interrupting benefits the classroom environment for everyone.
Treat your classmates and teachers politely, avoid drama, and don’t get into fights — yes, you’ll be a celebrity for a day, but for none of the right reasons. These simple habits make your high school experience feel like a breeze and help you get through these next four years.
Understanding teachers: “That won’t fly in high school,” is a phrase we hear often from middle school teachers whenever we make a mistake. They made it sound like forgetting a pencil or turning in homework a day late leads to serious consequences. However, when we actually got to high school, we discovered that things weren’t as strict as were led to believe. It turns out, small slip-ups are just part of the process, and they’re usually met with a lot more understanding than we expected. They know you’re adjusting to a new environment and are there to help you succeed.
Juggling school and a social life can feel like a tightrope walk, but it doesn’t have to be stressful. Start by keeping a simple schedule to track assignments and hangouts so you don’t get overwhelmed. It’s okay if things aren’t perfect — just try to stay on top of your work while also making time for friends and fun.
Joining a club or sports team can help you meet people and have a break from studying. Remember, it’s all about finding what feels right for you and making the most of your freshman year.
If college is a route you would like to take in your years following high school, you may have already started planning the rest of your life. Stop. I was the same way freshman year, and I promise you that there’s more than enough time to plan for college. Take your time and enjoy it. You have four years to plan, it doesn’t all have to happen your freshman year.
Taking classes: High school isn’t meant to be a prison, but it can be if you make it that way. Take classes you want to take and classes that you can manage. Some kids think it’s a competition to take the hardest classes possible, but they then find themselves up all night stressing due to the weight of these classes. These competitions aren’t showing who’s the smartest, but who can have the least amount of fun in high school.
Enjoy the next few years. You may feel pressured to spend high school thinking about college, but I promise you, spending your time on these things will be your biggest regret.
